For the first 3 weeks of James' life he "wouldn't" sleep on his own...looking back it that probably was just as much my fault as his...he hadn't figured out night and day properly, often waking up for long periods (up to 3 hours) at night to be alert and totally wide awake. And if we put him in his bassinet he would only sleep a max of 40minutes before waking up and getting out of sorts and crying himself to an even more awake state, but more often is was only 15-20 minutes of sleep before this happened. However, if I nursed him to sleep and then just moved him onto my chest he'd sleep for up to 3 hours straight...so he pretty much slept on me for the past 3 weeks straight...which I am sure did not give me great sleep but at least whatever sleep I was getting was longer than 15 minute increments. (Tim had James sleep on him a few times until our 1-week checkup when Dr. Owen told us a story about her brother-in-law having his newborn sleep on his chest and having a dream that a wolverine was attacking him and he woke up to find himself throwing the baby off him- Tim didn't have James sleep on him again.)
Then this past Monday night James slept in his bassinet all night! And again Tuesday...and again last night! We had been trying to swaddle him thinking he was waking himself up with his flailing arms, but James DOES NOT like to be swaddled. So we just put him in a sleep sack, used a heating pad to warm up his sheets so the cold sheets wouldn't wake him up when we put him down and he's been sleeping quite well AND SO HAVE I. I'm sure we'll have our setbacks--last night James was awake from 1:20-3:00, but in general I think we now have a baby free bed.
On another front, James took his first bottle on Monday night with no fuss (unlike my attempts at pumping which are super frustrating) and again tonight. I guess food is food and he doesn't really care at this point how he's getting it.
So victory with bed and bottles...awesome.